Tuesday, December 28, 2010

Read this from Sharmaine, the happy bee and I love it.

Happy Light Traveler
If you cannot let go your past, what makes you think you have control in your future? Your past is a heavy luggage, you'll not have anymore space to squeeze in your futures if you do not empty it. Sort out your luggage before you embark on a new journey, travel light ^^
No one on earth is so good about forgetting everything they've been through, the past can be painful or happy, sad or joyous. Some traveler choose to pack everything, some choose those look light but heavy stuffs, some empty their luggage totally including every lesson learned...only the wisest understand what is the meaning of bag but"travel light". We have 60 billions travelers on earth, carrying different luggages small, big, backpack and etc... we can't control what the other travelers like to pack in their most importantly, which type of traveler we choose to be and may you be a happy traveler no matter any type of traveler you choose to be ^^ Me surely a light traveler.

Sharmaine's post remind me of a movie that I watched not long ago, the "Up in the air" which star by Goerge Clooney where he gave his speech on "What's in your backpack". He talks about how each of us is carrying around a metaphorical backpack that contains all of our possessions and commitments. Our backpacks get heavier and heavier until they are so filled with “stuff” that it is nearly impossible to move.

And below quoted from The Simplerlife.net

Up to a certain point, I was nodding right along with the talk as it was being given. I agree that we all carry around a metaphysical backpack with everything that weighs us down. Our possessions, commitments, relationships, responsibilities and our own goals overflow our backpacks until many of us have no chance of ever being able to move again. However, the point where I differ in philosophy from the movie is what we should do with our backpacks.

In my quest for simplicity, I am methodically removing everything from my backpack and asking myself if it is truly something I need to be carrying with me. In terms of physical items, this is why I am committed to living a more minimalist lifestyle with less, yet higher quality, possessions. I do not need the extra weight of a large wardrobe or a room full of video games. Most importantly, everything I decide to keep in my backpack is something I have consciously decided to keep around. I think many people have no idea what is in their backpack and yet wonder why it is so heavy.

In terms of relationships, I do not accept the philosophy of Clooney’s character. He lives a life completely devoid of personal relationships because he thinks they tie him down. I prefer to fill my backpack with relationships that I care about– to honestly ask myself what role they should play in my life. I’m not afraid to let friendships fizzle out that no longer make sense in maintaining. At the same time, I am fiercely committed to those relationships I deem worthwhile and important. I take the same approach to my relationships that I do my physical possessions; if I love it and it makes sense to keep, than I do. If it is no longer important to me, then I let it go.

As you try to live a life of greater simplicity, think about the backpack you are carrying around every day. Have you consciously allowed everything you are carrying around to enter your life? If not, you might want to take a moment to stop, empty your backpack, and make some decisions about what you are going to put back in before you continue killing yourself under the weight.

Yes, I want to be a Happy Light Traveler too.

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